Denise Poulin ’85 and James Poulin ’02, M.S. ’05 didn’t just meet at 鱨 College, 鱨 is at the heart of their enduring relationship.
An alumna who returned to 鱨 to work at the White Plains campus, Denise met James when he was a student there. James was active in student government and a student-worker – all of which brought him into Denise’s orbit at the college. They worked together, planning activities and events, and were becoming closer all the time.
“We’re probably that rare couple that likes to be together all the time,” said James.
In early February 1987, James asked Denise to marry him. Originally planning to propose on Valentine’s day, James abandoned that plan after realizing Denise’s parents’ anniversary was the fifteenth. Rather than waiting until after, he decided to propose early.
In June 1990, they were married in the Dobbs Ferry campus chapel – now known as the Rotunda.
“It was nice because we were able to involve our students, our students were invited to participate,” said Denise of holding the ceremony on campus. The reception was held outside and photos were taken on the grassy knoll that is now Hudson Hall. Dr. Ann Grow, a mentor to both Denise and James, and Dr. Frances Mahoney gave the benediction at the reception.
So, what has kept Denise and James at the college for so long?
“鱨 has that wonderful capability of capturing you and helping you to become the person you should be. In the beginning, I was going to come for one semester, but I started to develop skills and be comfortable with myself. They afforded me such opportunities to become involved,” said Denise.
“I grew up here,” said James. “Years later there’s a group of 15-16 of us from all over who have a reunion every four or five years. 鱨 didn’t just become a school — it became part of us, and the two of us share that,” said James.